Choosing the Right Partner

【Description】

Are you prepared to start a romantic relationship? Love could be around the corner. From falling in love to getting married, everyone hopes to be in harmony with their partner for a lifetime. But how do we know whether the other person is right for us? How can we know if we’ll be able to get along with them over the long term? If you are troubled by the above questions, Grandmaster JinBodhi has the answers. He reveals the four keys to identifying the right partner for you.

【You will learn】

• How to choose the right partner
• What contributes to a strong marriage

【Featured aphorisms】

• A person who looks like you could be the right partner for you.
• Scent is a key factor in determining if someone is the right person to marry.
• Having shared values and common goals are key factors in determining whether a relationship could last.

【Content】

Scent is an important factor in human affection. Choosing the Right Partner This question has been asked a lot by young people. How do I know if someone is the right person to marry? Appearance is the first thing we look at. Please remember: we love ourselves. Those who look like us might actually be people you love. I have observed that many married couples do look alike. Even their body language, diet and speech patterns are very similar. That’s the first factor. Secondly, you share the same taste. You need to like him. Pay attention. In our normal socializing, if a person of the opposite sex is within about a meter of you, you will find that his or her body has a scent to it that you like and don’t mind. Your body scent is determined by your blood type, for example, A, B, AB, etc. Your blood type, birthday, genes, physical condition, appetite and kidney health; all play a role in determining your scent. Your personality, hobbies, preferences and manners can also change your scent and feeling. So those who like your scent, at least you all can do well working closely together. Therefore, scent is an important factor in relationships, especially marriages. So when looking for partners, there is the appearance, the scent, and the personality. Starting a relationship is one thing; living together for a lifetime is another. Whether you guys make it to the end actually depends on personality. It depends on how long you can work with this personality. Different personalities are accepted by different people. Usually, those who are mellow, kind, helpful, broadminded, well-mannered, and are not intolerant, jealous or harsh are ones who can sustain their relationship more easily, or even sustain it for a lifetime. That is why compared to living together forever, dating is relatively easier. Even if this person is not suitable for you, you can still date him. You are just not going to be together forever. There is personality, and the fourth one is sharing the same pursuits and values. This is the determining factor of whether a couple can last. It is hard for the personalities of two people to mesh well. But when we share the same pursuits or goals, our tolerance for each other increases. We can ignore each other’s personality flaws. We are able to let many issues just pass. So with tolerance, a couple will last due to having the same goals and values. If you have a good personality, it is easier for others to accept you.