【Description】
Gambling, drug abuse and other negative habits are harmful. Once addicted, you may lose your health, career and happiness for a lifetime. If your child’s friend is getting into a bad habit and your child acts like a moth darting to a flame, what parent wouldn’t be worried? In this short film, a parent asked Grandmaster JinBodhi about this. Let’s listen to what he says.
【Content】
(My daughter’s boyfriend likes to gamble; I want to break them up. Am I doing the right thing?)
As a parent, you have the moral right to be involved, be aware and give advice. Love is the result of blind impulses. Love sometimes makes people lose their judgment. Love is like gambling. Either you win or you lose it all.
Your daughter still loves her boyfriend despite his gambling. That means your daughter truly loves him. But as she is young, she doesn’t have much money. The guy will use up all her hard-earned money. Eventually, her anger will overcome her love. In less than a year, she will lose everything; she will finally break up with him. Find out whether it is possible to educate him. I believe your daughter must have already tried. If love can’t change him, there is nothing you can do.