On January 24, 2026, Grandmaster JinBodhi held a livestream titled “How Can I Get Married?” Using real-life examples, viewers were guided to understand the hidden rules in romantic relationships and rethink love through the wisdom of Buddhism—so they can find a truly compatible partner.
If you think you have the right qualities to couple up but are always hitting roadblocks in love, this lesson might just be the key to ending your singlehood.
【You will learn】
- Practical tips for love and dating
- 2026 first incense-offering information
【Featured aphorism】
- If you truly want to fall in love, take action—create and seek opportunities.
Love Tip #1: First Impression Matters
Do you have the right qualities, yet find that dates never go anywhere after the first meeting?
The answer often lies in the first impression.
Grandmaster JinBodhi reminds viewers of the often-overlooked details that matter, such as appearance, clothing, body proportions, and even scent.
If you want to change your relationship status, perhaps it is time to look at these all-important details.
Love Tip #2: Social Rules and Basic Etiquette
According to Grandmaster JinBodhi, there are boundaries that you should consider when on a date related to the questions you shouldn’t ask, the tone and volume of your voice, physical contact, bragging, etc.
And what should you do when the conversation stalls? These “unwritten but crucial” rules are essential to know in advance.
Q: How do I know if the other person is interested in me?
There’s no absolute standard for judging if someone likes you. But if they seem cold or avoidant, chances are the interest is low and the relationship won’t progress.
Two ways to observe:
- Facial expressions: Do they smile naturally, and does their emotional expression warm over time?
- Behavior: Are they willing to share contact info or suggest meeting again?
Love Tip #3: Don’t Be Too Quick to Judge
Many people make snap judgments on a first date, missing out on what could’ve been a great match.
If you want a reliable partner, patience is a key often overlooked.
Give each other more time and observe—you may discover that a quiet, logical guy actually brings a deep sense of security.
Love Tip #4: Complementary Personalities
Grandmaster JinBodhi pointed out that to find a partner who suits you, you must first understand yourself.
Are you quick-tempered or laidback? Energetic or grounded?
Like Sun Wukong and Zhu Bajie in Journey to the West, one fast and one slow, complementing each other to form perfect synergy.
Just maybe, the right one for you isn’t someone exactly like you.
Q: I have a small social circle—how can I meet the right person?
- Create social opportunities: Join sports, outdoor group ventures, or talent-based group activities, or visit Bodhi Meditation Centers to increase your interpersonal exposure.
- Avoid online relationships: High risk of deception, harder to find true love.
※Grandmaster JinBodhi reminds single individuals: If you want to meet someone new and build real love, you must take initiative and create opportunities.
What Is True Love?
True love often reveals itself in times of crisis; it is never about sweet words and never-ending flattery.
Have you heard the phrase “mutual support in adversity”?
The truth about love might be deeper than you ever imagined.
☆How to Apply Buddhist Wisdom in Love
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Bodhi Meditation College｜2026 First Incense-Offering
On the first day of Lunar New Year 2026, Grandmaster JinBodhi will personally offer the first incense on behalf of all followers, praying for the greatest blessings from the Heavens.
May everyone receive auspiciousness, happiness, fulfillment, prosperity, and joy.
If you’re hoping to receive good fortune in 2026, don’t miss this rare opportunity!
How to Offer First Incense
- Commence:
Available now—log in to the Bodhi Meditation College website to make your offering.
- Deadline:
North America (Vancouver): Feb. 16, 2026, at 11:59 PM (Lunar New Year’s Eve)
Asia (Taipei): Feb. 17, 2026, at 3:59 PM (Lunar New Year – Day 1)
Tier 1 First Incense – USD $888
Effects: Eliminates disasters and obstacles, brings longevity, dispels evil, and attains perfect auspiciousness.
Gift: Tai Sui Safety Lamp (Value: USD $99)
Tier 2 First Incense – USD $280
Effects: Removes obstacles, attracts wealth and charm, and brings success.
Tier 3 First Incense – USD $8
Effects: Eliminates misfortune, brings safety, ensures a smooth life, and attracts auspiciousness.
Further Reading: Achieve Love, Family, and Career in 10 Years | Grandmaster JinBodhi’s Guidance