【Description】
You try to help people by sharing the benefits of meditation, but why don’t you get the desired result?
If you want to persuade others to meditate, you need a good attitude. Is there anything else you should pay special attention to?
Watch Grandmaster JinBodhi’s teaching to learn the key to helping people.
【Content】
Is introducing “Meditation and health” magazine to people a form of self-cultivation?
This is helping others achieve enlightenment. This is a great cultivation practice. You will receive endless merits.
However, I would like to remind you to find the right balance. It means you need to know the boundaries. If you don’t know the other party well, even though it is for their own good, if you say too much, or the speed, frequency, tone of your speech, or your expressions are inappropriate, it is better to say nothing.
This is similar to being a salesperson. For instance, I am a salesperson at this store. When selling a product, some people can strike a balance in their sales talk. Their sales are very high, and many of them are sales champions. This is also a type of cultivation, the cultivation of life. The feeling he brings to others, for example, the way he smiles, the way he communicates, and the style with which he presents his product knowledge make it very easy for him to sell the product.
For some people, selling the same products at a similar store yields low sales. He felt that he had tried his best, to the point of almost begging the customer to buy it. He put in great effort, but still could not sell as many as others.
There are a few points to note. The first is having a good attitude. I am only recommending the product because it is good. Secondly, regardless of how good the product is, I have got to check if I talk too much or speak too fast. Do I look stern? Is my tone dull? Am I being overly enthusiastic? Is the price too high? Some products won’t sell if the prices are too low. When a good product is priced too low, people start to wonder if it’s counterfeit.
We have got to take note of all these factors. Start recommending only after proper consideration of these factors, be it meditation, health or wellness. Only then will you achieve the desired result. Having a kind heart but lacking a suitable method will not yield a positive effect.
However, having the type of thinking I have talked about is correct and great.